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I agree with another’s, age is not a big deal as far as you have a strong basic relationship. One of my friends different more than 30 years with the husband, another friend 10 years older than her husband but they have a happy married
And don't forget Indonesian women is looked younger than their age  , because I have several experience like juffy story in here
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5 yrs difference doesn't seem to be much, I have a brother who is 5yrs junior, we have a lot in common and always have much to communicate, exactly like good friends; actually I sometime ask advice from him. I am 37 and he is 32.
I myself, am now slightly hesitating on whether go further with a nice looking guy who is 7 years younger than me. That's how I come to visit here. He is a social worker but nice person, and I nearly get my PhD. We have known each other for a month. yes, I totally appreciate the comments folks given here, you need to have sort of chemical reaction between you two, indeed, I liked him when I met him in a pub, he thought I was 22 or 23, I laughed.
We have perfect sx, what worries me a bit is that I am not sure when I am say, 55 and he is 47, will he look for a woman at his age or younger.
exploringL
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Ah, you people are just amatures.  Me: man, bule, age 58, wife: Indonesian, age 20. Married 3 years. First year she was on birth control, so we could enjoy our life. Six months ago, she gave birth to a baby boy. That was a bit of an adustment with different cultures about raising a child. It also requires some estate planning on my part. Fortunately, I have enough money to buy some property, and after I kick the bucket, my wife and child will have rental income. I think we all get along pretty well.
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You are absolutely right Desi! I am 58 and my girlfriend is 17 
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tunawisma, tunakarya, tunamasalah
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Dear Kinanti Pinta,
In my view 5 years difference is no real problem. With a difference like that you still have the same perspective and expectancy of life. My wife and I are of similar age, which at younger and now older age has proven to work well.
I doubt if a difference in age of around 40 years will work out well. When the woman is around 30 it will probably need a lot of viagra, but by the time she's over 40 she'll have to push a wheelchair. Before 50 she's more or less guaranteed o be a widow. 
Greetings,
A.A.
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Agung,
You have the wrong idea.
The woman doesn’t need viagra but a vibrator, if she still needs sex. He doesn’t need sex anymore. When he’s in a wheelchair and demented, she must come running to fill up his beer glass and runs him under the shower when he shits himself.
If she becomes widow, she will be rewarded with a good widow’s pension and more where most Indonesian women only can dream of. 
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Dear Jantje,
Of course there are woman who dream of a widow pension, but I know most of them dream of a normal relation with a husband of similar age.
Friends and family of an Indonesian girl that marries a man three times her age do not like that. They prefer to see a "normal" couple, just as anywhere else on this world.
Greetings,
A.A.
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On 23-08-2005 16:41 Agung wrote:
..... family of an Indonesian girl that marries a man three times her age do not like that. They prefer to see a "normal" couple, just as anywhere else on this world.
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As long as he pays for the family there won't be any problem even if the daughter is only 17 and her husband 58. Isn't this pedophilia ?? 
regards
BL
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5 years ago it was...
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www.merapi.nl als het hagelt en sneeuwt in Mei... is April al weer voorbij
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Whattoejoemien Flipse 
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On 23-08-2005 16:49 londoh wrote:
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As long as he pays for the family there wont be any problem even if the daughter is only 17 and her husband 58. Isnt this pedophilia ??
regards
BL
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No its globalisation. Can't get something good at home? The really beautiful woman are too expensive and demanding? Go to a developing country and get some beauty!!! Dead cheap and mass production!!! With ur money and western appearance u will look like a knight in shining armor to the ladies 
just too bad im even too poor to buy one in indonesia 
maybe should try cambodia then?!
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