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Desi Clark
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Letting go isn't living with the heartache-filled dreams of what might have been...

Letting go isn't the certainty that somebody else was wrong.

Letting go isn't moving on from one disappointment to the hope of some new victory.

Letting go isn't the anxious search for a new solution to an old problem.

Letting go isn't learning live with lowered expectations.

Letting go isn't the avoidance of people or places that painfully remind you of past attachments.

Letting go isn't having to convince yourself of how right you wre to let go of something...

Letting go isn't the desperate search to find someone to agree with you about your side of an argument.

Letting go isn't the need to rehearse conversations in your mind in an attempt to feel confident.

Letting go isn't your insistence that you can let go of (fill in the blank) anytime you want.....

There is one more point to ponder...Letting go has nothing in common with self-sacrifice and the sour or resentful feelings that always seem to accompany any of our self-designed acts of self denial.

We all know exactly what it is like to be certain we have let go of something sorrowful or worrisome, only to find ourselves in a similar sad situation moments later. Our anger cannot keep us safe from an insensitive world, this anger is the insensistivity itself.

Shengshui atau cina benteng, the truth is that letting go is very simple and, above all natural. All living things are created to drop what is no longer needed.

You can live from true intelligence or with self-insistence. Letting go takes no strength only a willingness to see the need for it.

Unhappiness does not come at you, it comes from you.

Suffering is only something you picked up by mistake.

Defeat comes from clinging to solutions that don't work...

Real freedom is the absence of the self that feels trapped, not the trappings that self-acquires to make it feels free..

ok what else......??

Hope you can understand what I am trying to tell you Shengshui.... I got several broken nails from typing this.

Desi Clark




Effort and Courage are not enough without purpose and direction.

Jeroen
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Watch out your nails.. and I hope the person you are targetting does get the message as well.




aliakbar
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jeroen , Please do let him go out of this web in some special let-go manner as well....


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I think we just have to let him do his "thing".He also should think about what would Indonesia be like without the western people...no more investments in economics,no tourism,no income...ofcourse not all western influence is positive,but we cannot just separate the different cultures,we go way back in time too long for that.In the end it will pass,it allways does...he's just a bug in a big world.



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On 28-03-2004 11:48 Veer01 wrote:
I think we just have to let him do his "thing".He also should think about what would Indonesia be like without the western people...no more investments in economics,no tourism,no income...ofcourse not all western influence is positive,but we cannot just separate the different cultures,we go way back in time too long for that.In the end it will pass,it allways does...hes just a bug in a big world.


exactly... without the westerners no Indonesian economics, and without foreigners in Holland (or any other country) no local economics as well. It's just the international community we are all part of. No escaping (accept if you go to one of those inhabited Indonesian islands Emoticon: Puh! )



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Inhabited is fine...only take your woman with you Emoticon: Yes!



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On 28-03-2004 12:09 Veer01 wrote:
Inhabited is fine...only take your woman with you Emoticon: Yes!


one ? Emoticon: Wink



Veer01
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Mine would kill me probably if I take with me more Emoticon: Wink



Jeroen
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On 28-03-2004 12:18 Veer01 wrote:
Mine would kill me probably if I take with me more Emoticon: Wink


same here. Emoticon: Puh!



Veer01
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Just spoke to her on the phone...warm in Jakarta. Emoticon: Bye bye



Jeroen
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On 28-03-2004 13:19 Veer01 wrote:
Just spoke to her on the phone...warm in Jakarta. Emoticon: Bye bye


how come Emoticon: Puh!



Veer01
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The weather...but will be much hotter next week when I see her again. Emoticon: Yes!



Desi Clark
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Veer, are you the one who's getting married next month?


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Veer01
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Ya...april 12th is our big day...think of me and my lady that day. Emoticon: Wink



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On 29-03-2004 19:20 Veer01 wrote:
Ya...april 12th is our big day...think of me and my lady that day. Emoticon: Wink


So we will get a full review here afterwards? Emoticon: Wink



Veer01
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Oke,including the weddin-night Emoticon: Wink



Desi Clark
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I will take video as well... do you need my address?


Effort and Courage are not enough without purpose and direction.

Veer01
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Movie???From weddingnight??? Emoticon: Red face



Desi Clark
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well yeah.,... your wedding night..didn't you voluntarily offer? Emoticon: Very funny


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Veer01
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Allright...but I'll have to ask her first Emoticon:



Jeroen
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Topic replaced to OFF. Selamat Malam Emoticon: Bye bye



shuisheng
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my name is shuisheng not sheng shui



shuisheng
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but that ok




bangwin
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oooh....whatever...... Emoticon: Yes!



budowono1
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agayn you are judgsing him .
and actualy provoking him why /





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